So, awhile back I made the post that seemed it was about a girl. Well it was and here is how things have turned out so far.
She and I have been friends since around the 5th or 6th grade. We've been that type of friend who can disappear for awhile and come back and still have so much to talk about. We lost touch during the college years and went our separate ways. Well about two years ago, I had just ended an "online relationship" and was looking for someone to talk to and she was just ending a year and a half relationship with someone. Through the power of social networking, we ended up finally meeting at Starbucks on a Sunday night and talked for a few hours. It was nice just to chat and know someone was having the same problems and such. We started to hang out a little bit, but not much after. Not sure why, but it was I guess basically because I wasn't really ready for anything. Stupid me, huh? Oh well. So not too long after that, she ended up meeting someone who was in the Army and they started dating.
Moving ahead two years... They were going fairly good for a long distance relationship for the past two years up until recently (right before Christmas to be exact). She had finally decided they needed to take a break and they did. Well, for these two years she and I had been hanging out on a regular basis. Not really for any reason, but just as friends to hang out and have something to do. We sat on opposite sides of the couch and all that, nothing happened. Well, on their 'break' we ended up starting to cuddle some and on Jan 1st of this year we ended up kissing. I'll spare you the details. :) I guess about two weeks after that, he ended up coming in from out of town to see if they were going to patch things up and continue on, but it didn't happen. He still stayed with her for two weeks and it was odd for me to think about that. But I digress...
So, we've been doing our thing for a little over a month now, and the idea was put in my head about being a rebound guy. I mean I had never figured in the first place that we would go this far as to think about dating, so I never really had to think about it. I think since we've had over 10 years of friendship that I wouldn't technically be a rebound, but in terms of definition I guess I would be. I actually brought it up to her and she seemed somewhat reluctant to tell me at first, wanting to know why I was asking all this. So, I finally got an answer, but I'm just not sure where to go from here.
We've always had our differences and she's always told me the reasons why we would never / could never date. What changes those now? Anything? And I honestly don't want to just be a rebound after a shitty two year relationship. You know what I mean? I just don't really know... *sigh*...